You’re confused at the crossroads.
You think you love this person and believe this person loves you. “Should I propose? Should I accept if there is a proposal?”
The decision is a big deal that will impact your future, but you’re not sure you are ready to take the next step. You want help to sort some things out, things about yourself, this potential partner, and relationships in general.
So many relationships around you started good but ended up not working out. You don’t want to be a statistic but are unsure how or if you can keep that from happening. You know there are no guarantees in life, but you want to feel more at peace with whatever decision you make.
This relationship has continued for a long time. There have been challenges that the two of you have overcome, some satisfactorily. Others did not end nicely, but you have become resigned to accepting the outcome but are not necessarily happy about it.
Finding the right advice is not easy.
Taking the next step is an important decision, and having some advice on how to proceed would help.
Family and friends have provided mixed advice. Some recommended counseling as an option, but you are not sure.
The thought of counseling makes you anxious. At the same time, making this decision alone is a scary option. “What do I do?”
Therapy can provide objective advice.
Yes, making this decision is a big deal, and I can help you.
There are issues couples don’t discuss. Through relationship therapy, you and your potential partner can engage in discussions that cover all aspects of relationships, from roles and expectations to intimacy and everything in between. Sometimes, I will work with each of you individually, but most of the time with both of you.
The two of you learn to identify potential obstacles and how to navigate problems together (should you decide to stay together). Within six sessions, you gain more certainty, allowing you to see which path to take.
After over 15 years of providing relationship therapy, couples have learned much about themselves and their partners and developing and maintaining healthy relationships.
You don’t have to keep wandering around in the land of confusion. The information you need is at your fingertips.
Call me today for a free 15-minute consultation, and let’s create a healthy path for both of you.
